The Importance of Personal Space

Last week, Year 3 and 4 students joined together to complete an engaging and important Health lesson. We were focusing on the idea of ‘personal space’ and what it looks, feels and sounds like. Mrs Hill read us the story ‘Personal Space Camp’ and Miss Allen taught us how to use Padlet to display the answers from our partner discussions. We used collaboration, manners, teamwork and communication skills to complete this lesson. The Year Fours were fabulous leaders and the Year Threes became Mac whizzes!

Conflict resolution role-plays in Year 1

“Peace is not the absence of conflict but the presence of creative alternatives for responding to conflict.” ~ Dorothy Thompson. 

As part of the Whole School Social Skills program, in Year One we have been learning about and exploring Resolving Conflicts. We identified that conflict is when two or more people cannot agree on something. As a class, we discussed some examples of conflict we face in day-to-day life, and some ‘fair’ ways of resolving them. We agreed upon and recorded on a poster tips for ‘Resolving Conflicts’ quickly and fairly. The children then role played some scenarios that involved conflict and how to identify and manage them effectively. They did a great job and are keen to practice the new skills they are acquiring.

Emma McHardie
Year 1 Teacher

Resolving Conflicts: learning using Padlet

In Year 5, we have spent our Term 3 Health lessons discussing conflict resolution and what techniques we can use to “bounce back” from difficult situations and live resilient lives. As a class, we decided that this is one area that we could provide a positive example for the whole school, in order to make our environment as peaceful and encouraging as possible. We discussed the characteristics of calmly resolving a conflict and what behaviours we may be able to see, hear and feel during this process. The students then individually completed a Padlet wall, where they wrote their own descriptions of resolving a conflict. They then included a photo demonstrating conflict resolution. They have worked so well on this topic for the entire term and it is so wonderful to see such harmony within the class. Feel free to have a look at our class Padlet wall using the following link http://padlet.com/wall/9w267qnxo4hx

Claire Cooper
Year 5 Teacher

"Resolving Conflicts" Answer Garden

This week we began a new whole-school social skill focus with our Sacred Heart students, which is: Resolving Conflicts. We feel this skill is very important for our students to master, especially in the playground. This week the Year 6 Class used “Answer Garden” to share words which you could use when resolving conflicts at school. Great work, Year 6!

Renee Byrne-King
Year 6 Teacher and Assistant Principal

'Praise of the Week' in Year 4

Our current whole-school social skill focus for Term 3 is 'Encouraging Others'. It has been very pleasing to see students put into action what they have been learning. Here is
what the Year 4 class have been focussing on: We have been implementing a variety of ways to encourage others in Year Four. After discussing how important it is to be positive and celebrate the achievements of others we introduced a 'Praise of the Week'. Our favourite so far has been 'Excellent, Excellent', which we say whilst doing a big X with our arms. These short and simple praises have allowed us to motivate our peers quickly and effectively. Excellent, excellent!

Charlotte Allen
Year 4 Teacher

Year 2 Being Positive Y Chart

Over the last few weeks, Sacred Heart students have been doing a wonderful job at mastering our whole school social skill -  Being Positive. Y charts were used to introduce and teach the above skill to our students. Following class discussions about what this skill looks like, sounds like and feels like, the teachers recorded the students’ answers on a Y chart. Here is an example of a Y chart, created by our Year 2 students:

Carolyn Perlini

Year 2 Teacher and Assistant Principal

Year 6 Respecting Others Y Chart

The Year 6 class, used a KAGAN ©  cooperative Learning structure to complete their Y-chart on the social skill of “Respecting Others”. Each student worked with a shoulder partner and discussed what “Respecting Others,” looked like, sounded like and felt like. We then shared our discussion with the rest of the class and created our Y-Chart on our classroom window with bright coloured post-it notes. Well done, Year 6!

By Renee Byrne-King
Year 6 Teacher and Assistant Prinicipal

'Recipes for Respect' in Year 4 at Sacred Heart

Our newest Sacred Heart social skill focus is 'showing respect'. We thought long and hard as a class to come up with what we thought respect looked like, sounded like and felt like. It was a tricky skill to pinpoint as we decided it reached across all areas of life.

Here are the areas we believed respect was needed in:
- showing respect to others
- showing respect to ourselves
- showing respect to our environment
- showing respect to property

We delved in to the emotions we felt when we felt respected and how it linked to other skills such as manners and self control. To illustrate our understanding we each created a ' Sacred Heart Recipe for Respect'. We included beautiful ingredients like love, compassion, patience, kindness, self control and understanding. Each recipe was unique and meaningful.

We are now focusing on transferring our skill to outside the classroom and using it to problem solve in situations. For example when we are having a disagreement with friends we want to consider if we are being respectful. Are we showing the ingredients of compassion and understanding?

Want to know the quantities you need of the ingredients in our recipes? Come find us and ask! We are more than happy to share our recipes for RESPECT!

Year Fours and Miss Allen

Protective Behaviours Program at Sacred Heart

We are learning about Protective Behaviours

Protective Behaviours is a safety program recognised and used across all states in Australia by many organisations and departments (e.g. Health, Education, Police). In Term 1 at Sacred Heart, Hilary, our School Social Worker, has been delivering a wonderful program to our Years 1, 2 and 3 students with regards to how students can keep safe. Next term she will deliver this program to our Years 4,5 and 6 students. Below is an outline of the important themes of this program. It is hoped that parents will continue this important learning at home and also help develop the language introduced at school.

The first theme is:

WE ALL HAVE THE RIGHT TO FEEL SAFE ALL OF THE TIME

We will discuss what a right is and learn about the responsibility we have to behave in a way that does not make others feel unsafe .

We will consider the words safe and unsafe and learn about Early Warning Signs (the way our bodies let us know something is ok or not ok). e.g. When scared, we may get  goose bumps, shiver, feel hot or cold, get a sick feeling in our tummy.

Early Warning Signs may differ from person to person.  There is no right and wrong but it is important for students to recognise what they are feeling.  They need to know the names of emotions so that they can express their feelings.  We will encourage students to use their words instead of making unsafe choices with their actions.

We will learn about ‘’yes’’ feelings and “no” feelings and how to trust instincts.  They will consider the difference between feeling safe and being safe.

To do this the students will listen to stories, play games, use circle time to talk together and engage in small group activities.  This session will be followed up by the class teacher day to day at school.

HANDY HINTS FOR HOME

A child might feel unsafe about getting into trouble.  Discuss the difference between getting into trouble for doing something wrong and feeling unsafe, scared or hurt.  Make sure they understand that you may not like their behaviour sometimes but you still love them.

Road and water safety may be a good starting point for discussing safety.

Use the word “ safe” as part of your family’s everyday language.

Encourage your child to feel confident about showing their feelings openly. A child that is told to “Stop crying!”, “Don’t be silly” or “Don’t be scared” may learn that their feelings don’t matter.

Use teachable moments in everyday life to role model  Protective Behaviours.  Use “I feel…..” sentences yourself.  e.g. “I feel nervous because I have a job interview today. I have my early warning signs – a churning, sick feeling in my tummy.”

Talk about the difference between dobbing and telling.   Explain that If you are” dobbing” you are trying to get someone into trouble.  If you are “telling” you will have your Early Warning Signs, you may feel unsafe and so you must tell someone you trust.

Keep reminding them about their Early Warning Signs when they are telling you something. Do they feel unsafe or are they just trying to get that person into trouble?  

The second theme is:

WE CAN TALK WITH SOMEONE ABOUT ANYTHING

We will talk together about this sentence and what it might mean. “We” means everybody and we will consider who could the “someone” be and what could the “anything“ be, even if it is unsafe, awful or scary.

We will revise theme 1 –  Early Warning Signs (the way our bodies let us know something is ok or not ok. “Yes” and “No” feelings.  Safe and Unsafe.

HANDY HINTS

You may like to help your child to identify a network of trusted adults who will provide support and protect them when needed.

A NETWORK PERSON will:

• LISTEN
• BELIEVE THEM
• BE AVAILABLE AND EASY TO CONTACT
• TAKE ACTION, IF NECESSARY, TO PROTECT THEM AND HELP THEM FEEL SAFE AGAIN.

Include your child in this process rather than simply telling them who they should choose.

Such people need to be those who your child feels they could approach and ask for help at the time it is needed.

It is a good idea to let the chosen network person know they have been chosen as a trusted adult. You could go with your child to the adult and explain what a network person is – give them the job description and ask them if they would be happy to be this for your child.  Quite often the adult might be flattered, surprised and honoured by being chosen.

You might like to make a network sheet with your child  e.g. get your child to draw around their own hand, fill in names on the hand as indicated and allow your child to colour, decorate it as they wish.

Display your child’s Network with names and contact phone numbers in your home.

You might like to teach your child their address and phone number, how to use the phone, how to ring 000 and practice answering the phone. Explain an emergency is when you need help straight away.

You may also like to encourage your child to share good news with their Network People so that they are comfortable talking with them by the time and if, they need to ask for help in a difficult situation.

By talking with your child about what is happening in their life lets them know you will listen to anything even if it is a difficult or shameful thing. Let them know that even if you do not like what they have done, you will always be with them to help them manage those feelings with love.  If you do this it is much more likely your child will come to you in those difficult times, rather than trying to deal with the problem alone. Thank your child for talking with you no matter what the content of the conversation.

If your child has gone to their Network Person but still has Early Warning Signs and feels unsafe, encourage them to persist and find another Network Person.  Sometimes adults can get distracted or busy and not be able to help a child at the time.  It is rarely because they do not want to help and so your child needs to know it is ok to persist until they feel safe.  You want to feel confident that your child knows what they can do to keep themselves safe when you are not around.

I hope you enjoy talking with your child.

HILARY CAMPOS

SCHOOL SOCIAL WORKER

5 easy steps to handle big emotions

We all experience emotions. Sometimes we experience happiness, sadness, anger, frustration, excitement and joy. However, it is not always easy to control these emotions and handle them how we want to. Children, and even adults, need to be taught and modelled strategies to help understand and handle emotions; especially BIG emotions.

This is where the '5 Easy Steps to Handle Big Emotions' comes into play. Attached is an image of the poster displayed in our classrooms as a visual reminder of the steps we can take to stay cool, calm and collected.

The first step is 'Remind myself that it is never ok to hurt anyone'. This step includes both physical actions and words because both do equal damage. In high emotion situations we can forget this step and we need to always be mindful that our actions are a true reflection of who we are and what we believe is right.

The second step is 'Take 3 deep breaths or count slowly to 10'. This step gives us time to stop, think and reflect. When we are frustrated or overwhelmed we can suddenly act without thinking so this stop is vital. We can recognise our warning signs during this step like tenseness, heart rate and tight hands. Breathing and counting allow us to compose ourselves.

The third step is 'Use my words to say how I feel and what I wish to happen'. This step key to handling feelings as it helps to understand that the big emotion we are having is important and we are open to problem-solving. We may not always get our way but talking calmly can lead to a peaceful solution that is better than conflict.

The fourth step is 'Ask for help to solve the problem'. Talking openly to adults who we feel safe around really assists our problem-solving. An adult can help decide whether we need to work it out or walk away from a big feeling situation. An adult is always happy to help and most importantly listen.

The final step is 'Take time to calm down and relax'. Sometimes after all the above steps we just need some space. Having time to ourselves to process our emotions and the solutions is vital to the handling strategies. We may not always get the solution we want but that is ok and by having this time to think helps us reflect. So, give it a go and follow these steps when you are feeling overwhelmed, upset or frustrated. They may help you avoid a situation or outcome that didn't need to happen.

Mindfulness is the key!

Miss Charlotte Allen
Year 4 Teacher

What are good manners and how can I teach them?

What are good manners?

Courtesy, politeness or having good manners are all about respecting others and yourself.

How would you feel if someone:

·         talked to your friend but turned his back to you?

·         pushed you out of the way to get the seat you were about to sit on?

·         let the door slam in your face as you were about to walk through it?

·         shared your things but never shared anything of theirs?

·         never said 'please' or 'thank you'

Good manners are about considering the feelings of other people, and being the kind of person that others will like and respect.

Manners at school

·         Saying good morning/afternoon if you are walking past an adult who you know.

·         Asking if you can borrow something, not just taking.

·         Returning things that you have borrowed.

·         Waiting your turn before you speak.

·         Saying 'excuse me,' rather than pushing past someone.

·         Holding the door open for the person coming in, especially if he/she is carrying something.

·         Respecting your own and other people's property, especially school property.

·         Saying 'please' and 'thank you'.

Source: Kids Health. Retrieved from: http://www.cyh.com/HealthTopics/HealthTopicDetailsKids.aspx?p=335&id=2526&np=287

Some activities to reinforce the skill

• Y charts to define what good manners look like, sound like and feel .
• Role-play using good manners/bad manners at home, school and in the wider community. Class can used thumbs-up/thumbs down strategy to signify whether good or bad manners were displayed– students explain their reasons.
• Good manners Jar Label an empty jar with “Manners Jar”. Anytime you see a student displaying good manners put something in (marbles, cotton balls, counter). See how full it gets at the end of the week. Can the children improve each week?
• Manner Detectives Create signs that illustrate good manners which can be used/seen around the classroom eg., “waiting your turn”, “saying please and thank you”. Students add names of students to the signs when they see them showing the good manner examples. This could also be anonymous – replace with keeping tallies. Build a good manners wall.
• Manners from A-Z List each letter of the alphabet and challenge the children to find well-mannered phrases for each letter of the alphabet. Share with class. Class could then create a book A-Z of manners with a collection of phrases.
• Create a track your manners chart you can encourage students to keep a track of their good manners behaviour (self-reflection).
• Thank you notes
• Circle Time – discuss “Using Good Manners” as well as any incidents that students have observed (positive or otherwise) in the classroom/playground.
• Paper Bag Character Study using a paper bag, students draw a picture of a main character from a story read who does/does not show good manners (on one side of the bag) and give examples from the story (on the other side of the bag) - good activity for middle/upper primary students.
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Mrs Perlini

Year 2 Teacher

Acting Assistant Principal 2015

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Active Listening and Haiku Deck in Year 4

In Year 4 we have been discussing, learning and modelling active listening. We created a Haiku Deck together to show what active listening looks like, sounds like and feels like in our classroom. Here is a link to our Haiku Deck: https://www.haikudeck.com/copy-of-active-listening-education-presentation-tMC6p37s1g

We worked further on what active listening means when we are working in partners. We make sure we are looking at our partner, knee to knee, using manners and taking it in turns to talk. By doing this we are showing respect to our partner and ensuring we are listening. 

To help us with our self-control and practising the ability to actively listen, we completed a bubble challenge. This was a big test! Miss Allen blew bubbles all around us and challenged us to stay completely still as they moved around us. We had them pop on our nose, head and right in front of us and we didn't flinch, not even a tiny bit. Miss Allen was so impressed and now every time she says the word 'bubbles', instantly we are actively listening. We are Superstar Listeners!

Come and find us and ask us about Active Listening we would be very happy to model to you how it is done.

Miss Charlotte Allen and the Year Fours